My apologies to the readers who have been asking me what happened to the blog. As I noted in my previous update, things got a bit crazy here. They’ve managed to stay that way somehow. In addition to all of the personal things going on, there is tons of stuff going on in the city itself. June is a busy sexy month here as many of you already know!

I’m working on creating a new personal work schedule. I’ve got the kinks almost worked out. When that’s done, this blog will resume again on a daily basis. You can expect to see that happen as of the first week in July.

Thanks for your support. I hope that you’re having a sexy time!

You may have noticed that the blog was a little bit quiet last week. It’s going to stay that way for another week or two. That’s because I’m traveling a bit to see my family. It’s a working vacation but the time I’m spending on the computer there is going to have to be devoted to those important people known as clients.

San Francisco is Sexy isn’t going anywhere … just taking a breather while I’m away.

In the meantime, some of the blogs that I recommend for your reading pleasure include:

• Tiny Nibbles. This sexy blog by Violet Blue is always one of my favorite reads.
• Carnal San Francisco. I’m quite liking this relatively new SF sex news site.
• Good Vibes Magazine. Always good for news, Q&A and erotica.
• Courtney Trouble. This great local artist has a new blog.
• Fashionist. I’m adoring this fashion-on-the-street blog.
• Letopho. I feel like a voyeur reading the updates about the GAM’s experiences in SF.
• Silkenvoice. A lovely sensual blog.
• Friction and On Again Off Again GFE. An inside look at the world of local escorts.
• Trio of D/s blogs. Nasty School, Rantings of a Redheaded Insomniac and Realizing Why the Caged Bird Sings are three separate blogs by three people who all know each other from D/s experiences so there’s some overlap in their posts which is interesting to read.

Back soon …

I got a bunch of invitations to do really fun things this weekend so I’ve got the feeling that people really want to be out and about. Luckily there is tons of stuff going on this weekend.

7 Sexy event options for today are:

1. Carnaval. It’s happening all weekend. Go enjoy it!
2. Events at Kinky Salon. There’s a class and a themed party going on today. It may not be too late to get invited.
3. What we Know so Far. This is a sexy dance performance at Mama Calizo’s Voice Factory Theatre tonight at 8.
4. Love Tech. This one is an underground electronic event that starts around 9 tonight.
5. Katya in What Becomes a Legend Most. Katya Smirnoff-Skyy is back on stage at 8 tonight.
6. The Buzz About Vibrators. A free class today at Good Vibes on Polk.
7. Milk at the Castro Theatre. The movie is back. I saw it at this theatre and if you didn’t then you should.

What else is happening today?

Kinky Salon is a great members-only play space. There are gorgeous themed rooms and beautiful people of various genders and orientations. And there are lots of different fun events held here. Two of those events are happening on Saturday:

1. Kinky Salon Booty Camp is holding a class on Themes, Costumes and Invitation Ideas for throwing your own Arty Sexy Party. It’s all about the creative process and I imagine the tips on costumes would be useful for a variety of things since there’s always something going on here that you can wear a costume to! This class will even teach you why it’s good for you to wear costumes. Guest speaker is Rose Pistola.
2. Holy Moly. People who already know all about costumes can attend this themed party filled with nuns and school boys. Multiple DJs, a confessional booth, live sensual dance performances, live music and lots of other stuff is going on there.

Kinky Salon always has lots of fun stuff going on. This weekend is just one slice of that.

Want to enjoy a little bit of eye candy today? Follow the links below to some of the sexiest 2009 Bay to Breakers photo sets on Flickr:

• Photos by Captin Nod. This is my favorite set. It sums up all that there was to see including Betty Boop, this year’s salmon and lots of pink.
• Photos by ReneDrivers. Another complete set with sexy people and silly costumes.
• Photos by wooac. Good portrait shots. Some favorite individual photos include this guy, this girl and this couple.
• Pup Ajax. Funny stuff including the lost puppy photo above.
• Photos by AGrinberg. A few good ones of Wonder Women and other women.
• Photos by Stargazer 95050. Fun shots of the Haight Ashbury couple, “twins” and sexy swimsuits (although that last one is an old photo). 
• Photos by Tom Hilton. Good costume shots (including Sponge Bob).
• Photos by Francesca Tronchin. With some naked runners.

Got any favorite B2B photos this year?

It already feels like today is going to be a hot day. Here’s today’s seven sexy options for making the day even hotter:

1. Erotic Rope Bondage Art Salon at Femina Potens. Mingle with “celebrity bondage artists, models and porn stars” at this live performance art event. Starts @ 8; Tickets are a pricey $100.
2. Venom and the Anecdote Literary Reading and Open Mic at Greenhouse Cafe. This is a combination 21st bday party / literary reading / open mic night and something about it seems alluring. Starts @ 4 and this one is free.
3. Guerilla Rep at Mama Calizo’s Voice Factory Theatre. This play is being called a “bromantic dramedy”. Starts @ 8; tickets are $10-$15.
4. Urban Diversion Party at Broadway Studios. Urban Diversion is a local activities group that you can join to do cool stuff with other people. This is their big birthday party where they’re expecting hundreds of dressed-up people that you can mingle with if you go. Starts @ 8, tickets are $20.
5. Romance Workshop for Long-Term Couples. This is a free 2-hour class where you can learn to regain that honeymoon spirit. It starts at 7; register online.
6. Women on the Verge Films at Castro Theatre. Today kicks off a 5-day run of movies that feature lust and horror and great female stars. Today is a double-feature of Carrie and Female Trouble with varying times throughout the day.
7. FauxGirls at Kimo’s. The no-cover drag show on Polk Street is back again tonight. Starts @ 10.

There’s also a play party today posted on Craigslist.

I went to go get my haircut earlier this week. It was a much-needed haircut - not so much because my hair was looking bad but because I had been feeling decidedly unsexy and I really needed that boost of sexiness that a great new haircut can provide.

I get my hair cut at Red Union Salon over on Union Street. It’s a sexy place to get a haircut. In fact, I can think of 10 Sexy Things About Red Union Salon right off of the top of my head:

1. Sexy stylists. I hate when you go into a salon and kind of cringe when you see that your stylist isn’t looking so hot. It just makes you feel wary. That’s not the case here where the stylists are sexy enough to give you confidence in their ability to make you sext too. I get my hair done by Erika who owns the salon but everyone else that I’ve met there is also sexy and fun.
2. Sexy hair colors. I usually do my color myself but this week I decided to get it done there. Erika used this great Redken hair color called Merlot that’s super hot.
3. Sexy artwork. One of my favorite things about this salon is that they hang local artwork on the walls and have gallery shows. The work that is there right now is from John Benko. It’s this terrific swirly, magical fantasy artwork. Several of the pieces are large paintings of curvaceous wine glasses that are totally sexy.
4. Sexy beverages. Speaking of wine, there is wine made available to you if you want to sip it while getting your hair colored. You can also get tea or water if that’s more your thing.
5. Sexy location. The salon is located on Union Street at Buchanan in a second story room that looks out onto Union Street. There are beautiful people passing by and you’re located next to all sorts of sexy stuff including clothing boutiques and chocolate shops.
6. Sexy building. The salon also happens to be conveniently located in a building with other businesses that also offer sexy services such as massage and day spa services.
7. Sexy setting. All of this leads to a setting that is totally sexy. The salon is one of those places where the energy is just right. You feel good when you’re in there.
8. Sexy relaxation. One of the things that I realized when I was there this week is that this positive energy makes it really easy to relax in this salon. You can’t be beautiful if you aren’t relaxed! Many salons have overwhelming music and too many things going on and the effect is exciting but not relaxing. Everything at this salon works right to let you really relax.
9. Sexy is in the details. This all comes together because every little detail in this salon was clearly chosen to be there because of how it enhances the place. From the lighting to the furniture to the ease of booking an appointment, everything is taken care of easily here.
10. Sexy haircuts. All of these other things are great but they wouldn’t matter much if they didn’t result in sexy haircuts. The fact that the haircuts coming out of this salon are super hot is really what makes this is a sexy place to get a haircut.

Note: I’ve written about Red Union here before. I don’t get any special perks for doing this. I just really love the place!

San Francisco is a city that regular makes the lists of “top cities” to visit or live in. We recently made it to the top of the best cities for single straight men to live in according to AskMen. And we’ve popped up on another few lists that I’ve been pointed in the direction of recently:

1. 2nd Best American City to Live and Work In. There were nearly thirty cities that ranked better than here to live in according to this survey but they were all international cities with the exception of Honolulu which beat us out by one spot. Boston follows right behind us. This survey considered everything from public health and safety to quality of restaurants and cultural activities.
2. Best City for the Outdoors. I don’t happen to love the weather here much myself but a lot of people do which is one reason that Forbes says San Francisco is the best city for the outdoors. I do agree that the beautiful nature here should put us on that list.
3. Top High Tech Cities. It’s no surprise that we’re on this list but San Jose, Washington and Boston all beat us out.
4. The 14 Best Destinations for Summer 2009.  We’re not the top choice though; people are recommended to go to warmer climates including San Diego, Tampa and Vegas. We’re there though and part of the reason is that the cost of hotels here has decreased 25% since last year. I’ve already started seeing the increase in tourist traffic in my neighborhood so I guess people are listening to this.

And of course in my opinion we’re at the top of the list for sexy cities.

Aspect Gallery is a photo framing shop on Polk Street that also does gallery art shows of local artists. This Friday May 15th is the free opening reception for their Nude and Eroticism show which features the sexy art of over one dozen local artists.

Slideshows of the artwork of the following featured artists can be seen on the Aspect Gallery MySpace Page. Their artist statements can be found on the blog.

• Keegan R. Magical, fantasy-inspired artwork.
• Erika Meriaux. Sexy local artist who has been mentioned on this site a few times in the past.
• Teresa Moore. Beautiful paintings with sexy figures set against stunning backdrops.
• Ron Reeves Meadow. Detailed look at the human form.
• Graig Scoffone. I particularly like this artist’s sexy silhouettes.
• Daniel Rojales. So much emotion in the faces of these nude figures.

The reception starts at 6.

I’ve been in something of a slump lately. Nothing’s particularly wrong; I’m just in one of those moods where I’d rather be hibernating and hanging out with myself than out and about in the world around me. These moods never last long but they’re always a bit frustrating when they come around.

What I’ve noticed is that these moods are a bit more frustrating when living in San Francisco than they are when living somewhere less interesting. I think that’s because there are always so many sexy things that I want to do here that I feel like I’m really missing out if I don’t get out and do them. In contrast, I don’t really feel like I miss much when I’m hanging out in Tucson and not going out to fancy events because just hanging out is a standard day in Tucson.

It’s harder to get excited about doing something sexy here when you’re not feeling it, too. A lot of the sexy things that there are to do here do require a lot of energy. There are costumes to be put together. There are people to connect with. There are sexy games to play. It takes a lot of work and if you’re not feeling sexy then that work can feel like a bit too much.

So what do you do here when you’re not feeling sexy but you don’t want to be left out either? Here are a few of my tricks to get through times like these:

• Go to something more quietly sexy. The great thing about San Francisco is that there are many different levels of sexy here. Don’t feel like going to a play party or checking out a burlesque show? Maybe a sexy glass of wine or a sexy movie is a better choice right now.
• Do something sexy alone. Being around a lot of people can be draining during moods like these. Find something sexy here that you can do alone. Hit up Good Vibes for a new toy or book of erotica, for example.
• Remember that other sexy things are right around the corner. Sometimes you really do just need to burrow into your own hole and deal with yourself. Don’t fret; there is always something sexy to do in San Francisco so even if you miss out today you’re going to find a whole sexy world waiting for you when you re-emerge.
• Get away. Maybe you just need to get away for a little bit. Go to a place that’s about more frumpy. Put on your sweats and go shopping at Wal-Mart with your mom for a few days. You’ll probably discover that you’re ready to get right back into sexy San Francisco life when you return.

It’s not fun being in these un-sexy moods but they don’t have to get the best of you either!